In class we spent a lot of time talking about identity. There are so many ways that describes
identity. People are seen by their gender, race, class and the list goes on and
on. People often see themselves through
the looking glass self. A looking glass self is explained how people see
themselves through someone else’s eyes. For example I see myself as a daughter,
sister, students and hard worker. But through other people’s eyes they only see
me as a college student or something completely different.
Identity can also be described as something that is ascribed
to them such as being a mother or daughter. Those things happen automatically.
While on the other hand, you can be known by things you achieve like becoming a
doctor. You have to work for that status and earn that title. I feel that there
are ways that someone could be confused about this. For example if someone
becomes a mother they do not automatically become a mom. In my opinion a mother
is just someone who gave birth to a child. I feel that a mother needs to earn
the status of a mom.
I have posted a video of a girl going through changes
throughout her high school years. It shows how she is constantly judging
herself and thinking that her friends were judging her constantly. When in
reality they were saying anything about her at all. While watching this it
reminded me of how my high school went and how my friends were constantly
asking me how they looked and if they looked alright. And I would always
respond I don’t care what you look like and usually either did the rest on the
world. I can’t lie I sometimes do the same thing and I then I remember that if
they don’t like the way I look or act they don’t need to talk to me.